The Serenity Prayer

Serenity Prayer

“God, Grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

Courage to change the things I can,

And Wisdom to know the difference.”—Reinhold Niebuhr.

My grandmother kept a copy of the Serenity Prayer on her bathroom mirror. Today, I honor her by doing the same. I remember visiting her as a young girl and reading the prayer in her bathroom every morning. What I mainly remember is thinking, “This is a ridiculous prayer! If there is a problem, I know that if I try hard enough, I can solve or fix it!”

Many years and many trials later, I have learned the truth of the Serenity Prayer the hard way. There are so many things I cannot change. The only thing I can change is myself and my reactions to others and to the situations I encounter. I cannot change others. I try to share my firsthand experience with spiritual friends, but others like me often need a firsthand rather than a secondhand experience to see this truth.

I wonder whether it took my adoring grandmother as long as it did me to discover the truth and learn to live it.

I wonder whether she has as many setbacks as I often do—thinking I can change situations and others.

Places for Prayers in the Morning

 Prayers for the Morning

“But as for me, O LORD, I cry to you for help;

In the morning, my prayer comes before you.”—Psalm 88:14.

Many people practice a spiritual discipline, beginning and sometimes ending the day by reading and meditating on Holy Scripture. Many denominations follow a daily lectionary of Scripture readings. Over a set period, the reader studies significant parts of the whole Bible.

In the Episcopal tradition, the Book of Common Prayer outlines a two-year cycle of daily lessons, comprising Psalms, the Hebrew Scriptures, a New Testament letter, and one of the Gospels, to be read each morning and evening. By the end of each seven-week period, the reader has read the entire Book of Psalms. After the two-year cycle, the reader has been exposed to the entire New Testament twice and to pertinent portions of the Hebrew Scriptures once. 

We can also incorporate Scripture readings into a structured morning and evening prayer service, whether read alone or with others. These Daily Offices provide a contemplative framework for regular use and a pattern for regular Bible reading. In addition, some people use a daily meditation book with Scripture readings; others use publications such as The Upper Room (Methodist), Forward Day By Day (Episcopal), and Catholic resources like The Catholic Moment, The Word Among Us, and Being Catholic. Some of these meditations are available online for reading or listening. 

The Daily Offices of Morning and Evening Prayer are also available online. One of the most popular office sites is The Mission of St. Clare, www.missionstclare.com. I use the Daily Office at https://dailyoffice.wordpress.com/ for its additional artwork. 

I am part of a group continuing Community of Hope training in pastoral care, and we read daily meditations from Joan Chittister’s book on The Rule of Benedict. I had forgotten how much of a treasure it is to read for myself and then hear what others have said. I learn so much more from others. God speaks much more clearly in community.

Morning Prayer is offered Monday through Friday in this beautiful chapel at Saint Mark’s. Noonday prayers are posted on Saint Mark’s Facebook Page (Love St. Mark’s, https://www.facebook.com/stmarkslr) Monday through Friday.

I hope to hear from many others about their use of daily meditations and their approaches to structuring daily Scripture readings.

Joanna https://www.joannaseibert.com/

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Daily Ways To Pray

Tickle: Daily Prayer Practices

Canticle: A Song of Pilgrimage 

“Before I ventured forth,
even while I was very young,*
I sought wisdom openly in my prayer.
In the forecourts of the temple I asked for her,*
and I will seek her to the end.
From first blossom to early fruit,*
she has been the delight of my heart.
My foot has kept firmly to the true path,*
diligently from my youth have I pursued her.
I inclined my ear a little and received her;*
I found for myself much wisdom and became adept in her.
To the one who gives me wisdom will I give glory,*
for I have resolved to live according to her way.
From the beginning I gained courage from her,*
therefore I will not be forsaken.
In my inmost being I have been stirred to seek her,*
therefore have I gained a good possession.
As my reward the Almighty has given me the gift of language,*
and with it will I offer praise to God.”—Ecclesiasticus 51:13-16, 20b-22.

This “Song of Pilgrimage from Ecclesiasticus” is one of the Canticles offered for Morning and Evening Prayer in Enriching Our Worship 1, one of the early alternative Canticles for the Book of Common Prayer.

Christians inherited a pattern of daily prayer from the Jews, who set aside specific times for worship three times a day. More diligent Christians later took to heart Psalm 119:164, “Seven times a day do I praise you.”

By the Middle Ages, monks had developed a tradition of seven daily prayer times: Matins before dawn and Lauds at daybreak, which were combined into one service. Then, at sunrise, midmorning, noon, and midafternoon came Prime, Terce, Sext, and None; Vespers was observed at sundown and Compline at bedtime. Monks and nuns in monasteries faithfully kept this schedule over the centuries. Laypeople could come when possible.

In 1549, Archbishop Thomas Cranmer, in the first English Book of Common Prayer, established a structure that enabled ordinary people to follow a prayer schedule and praise God at the beginning and end of each day through two services: Morning and Evening Prayer. The 1979 BCP, as it stands today, restored Noonday Prayers and Compline. (See A User’s Guide to Morning Prayer and Baptism by Christopher Webber.) 

Phyllis Tickle, the theologian, writer, and founding Religion Editor of Publishers Weekly, reintroduced a shorter version of the daily observation of the Divine Hours in a series of books that many now follow. A pocket edition is available for easy carrying. Her shorter versions of the morning, noon, evening (Vespers), and bedtime (Compline) prayers, readings, and Scripture offer a way to pause our work and reconnect with God frequently throughout the day and evening. 

The readings are also available online at http://www.explorefaith.org/prayer/fixed/hours.php and http://annarborvineyard.org/tdh/tdh.cfm.

Consider observing at least one of the daily offices. Noonday prayers are offered on St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, Little Rock’s Facebook page. Morning Prayer is offered on weekdays in the chapel.

Compline is observed online at Mission of St. Clare on Facebook and on Barbara Cawthorne Crafton’s Facebook Page.

Joanna. https://www.joannaseibert.com/