Crossing the Divide

Photography as a Spiritual Practice

Crossing the Divide

Guest Writer: Alan Schlesinger

My wife and I had moved to Asheville, NC, in retirement less than a year ago. The town is nestled in the Blue Ridge Mountains. It is a beautiful cultural center for music and art. It is a Mecca for tourists who enjoy hiking, visiting countless microbreweries, and savoring the impressive foodie offerings in this quirky mountain town in Western North Carolina. It is fitting, therefore, that the Class A minor league baseball team that plays here at the legendary 100-year-old McCormick Field is named the Asheville Tourists.

Over the years, fans have had the honor of seeing the likes of Ty Cobb, Babe Ruth, and Jackie Robinson play in this historic ballpark nestled into the mountains surrounding Asheville. 

Soon, my wife and I attended a game with some new friends we met in Asheville. It was a beautiful, balmy summer evening, and the game was exciting as the last-place Tourists beat the Winston-Salem Dash 6-1. It was a sellout crowd, with a huge number of families with young children enjoying America’s pastime and dollar hotdog night rather than their electronic devices. Two towering home runs by the home team Tourists cleared the tall wall in dead center field and still seemed to be climbing as they left the ballpark. A glorious fireworks display capped off the evening, as it was a “Fireworks Friday”—a weekly tradition at McCormick Field. 

However, the night’s biggest ovation was reserved for a gentleman unknown to me and most of the other fans before that evening—George Sarros, a 98-year-old World War II Navy veteran who threw out the first pitch. He fought in the Battle of Normandy at Utah Beach. The crowd’s response to Mr. Sarros did not end with a standing ovation at the start of the game. 

Throughout the nine innings, a steady stream of people—both young and old—made their way to his seat along the third baseline to meet him, shake his hand, and thank him for his service. I took this photograph as he answered questions from three young baseball fans (you can see his signature where the girl on the right had him autograph her cap). He seemed surprised by the outpouring of gratitude from the fans at the game. I have to admit that I, too, was caught off guard by the response. In these days of political polarization, where even the definition of the term “patriot” sometimes seems divisive, the sellout crowd of 4100 people (including the progressive “elites” who live in the liberal town of Asheville and the right-leaning citizens from the surrounding rural countryside) came together to celebrate this gentleman and express their gratitude for the sacrifices of this patriot and the countless others of the “greatest generation” who took up arms to save democracy.

 As a son of refugees liberated by the Allies in World War II, I was honored to wait my turn, shake his hand, and offer my grateful thanks. 

Alan Schlesinger  

Joanna  https://www.joannaseibert.com/

 

Kanuga Chapel, Leaving Fingerprints, Letting Our Right Brain Be in Charge

Kanuga Chapel, Leaving Fingerprints, Letting Our Right Brain Be in Charge

“The God who existed before any religion counts on you to make the oneness of the human family known and celebrated.”—Archbishop Desmond Tutu.

The Chapel of Transfiguration at Kanuga Conference Center in North Carolina has always been a place where the family of God is celebrated in diverse ways. I love the chapel's exterior and interior, crafted from southern Carolina white pine from trees downed in a severe storm in 1936. 

My mind always wanders as I sit in the chapel, waiting for any service to begin, and I remember more. The wood for the chapel was not pretreated, leaving unusual dark oval markings from the oil in the workers’ fingerprints. The simple prints are more prominent on the ceiling, where it was more difficult for builders to work.

When I am in the chapel, I feel surrounded by the thousands of prayers from people on retreat who have worshiped here and by the hands of those who labored on the building. I remember our own fingerprints and where we leave them, as well as those of others.

I especially remember the day I was sitting in the chapel when I learned that my fingerprints for TSA PreCheck had not been captured clearly enough. That meant there would be a delay in receiving my PreCheck, delaying my traveler number! You carry this identification to go through a special security lane at airports. I realized that it is now physically hard for me to leave fingerprints for the remainder of my life’s journey.

I have a new appreciation for the builders of this chapel, who must have been incredibly strong and would have been tightly gripping the wood to leave their prints in this sacred space.

I remember other services in this chapel that I never wanted to end. I have memories of a preaching conference, dancing around the altar with Barbara Brown Taylor as I offered the bread and she followed with the wine. I see Bishop Tutu dancing on the green after an amazing closing Eucharist at a retreat led by Trinity Wall Street. Priceless. I remember two Lenten retreats when we were snowed in. Breathtaking.

I played my harp at one retreat that Phyllis Tickle led in this chapel because the scheduled musicians could not make it. I also played at the closing of our spiritual direction class at the Hayden Institute—a privilege.

Thin places like Kanuga can offer us an entire album of memories, times when God’s presence and love were palpable—or, as Gordon Cosby would tell us, times when we lived in the real world—or, as Lara Patriquin would tell us, times when our right brains were leading us.

Joanna.   https://www.joannaseibert.com/

 

 

 

Waiting on Tables

Making Life A Place Where We Know Each Other’s Name

Guest Writer: Larry Burton

“They won’t let me wait tables anymore, but I can do this.” 

We were with MK’s sister and her husband at a Wisconsin Supper Club called “The Butterfly,” named for the butterflies common in the area. Like all “real” supper clubs in Wisconsin, the menu was heavy on beef and almost void of vegetarian offerings. The décor was just this side of elegant; the tables were draped in white, and a small light flickered in the middle. The bar was large—of course, this is Wisconsin—and a large deck overlooked beautiful grounds.

We arrived at 4:30 on a Friday night—the only night the restaurant did not accept reservations. We were first in line, but many others took the invitation to visit the bar seriously. The room filled quickly, but the noise level stayed low. This was a positive for this hearing-impaired elder.

The woman clearing plates was clearly older than the young people who took orders and delivered food. She was attractive and engaging. “I’m 90 and have been working here for more than 50 years. I just love it and don’t ever want to leave.” She certainly had our attention as she shared the good news about the glorious ice cream desserts awaiting the lucky diner.

For better or worse, the days of 50-year tenure with one employer are long gone. Yet one cannot help but smile at the thought of all the friendships and experiences that made up that woman’s time there. There was also a sense that this supper club was a community not just for employees but for locals as well…especially on a Friday night. Say what you will about Wisconsin’s liquor consumption, its supper clubs still seem to serve a purpose.

Remember the opening jingle of the TV series “Cheers?” It included “where everybody knows your name.” Clearly, that is not the case for most of us, who have a place where we are recognized and accepted. In this time of division, it would be nice. That 90-year-old woman clearing our table made us feel that way, if only briefly. We hope to go back, and my agenda is to tell her how much she made my day.

Blessings.

Larry Burton
Madison, Wisconsin

Joanna joannaseibert.com