Connecting to God’s Presence As We Pray for Others: The Empty Chair
“It is vital that you become aware of Jesus and connect with him at the start of your intercessory prayer. Otherwise, your intercession risks becoming not prayer but an exercise in remembering people. The danger is that your attention will be focused only on the people you are praying for, not on God.”—Anthony de Mello in Sadhana: A Way to God (Image Books), p. 126.
De Mello’s book had a significant impact on my spiritual practices. The awareness exercises focused on my surroundings, my body, and my senses have been the most practical ways to learn to experience God’s presence. I was familiar with these exercises before and had tried them without success, but they have now become an essential spiritual practice for me.
One more lesson to remember: Spiritual practices that were not meaningful before can become important later.
De Mello suggests that rather than envisioning the face or clothes of Jesus, we might seek a sense of Jesus in the shadows, calling him by as many names as we are led. He recommends imagining Jesus in our prayers, seated in an empty chair beside us. This can be one of the most consistent ways to experience the presence of Christ.
These intercessory prayer exercises can change how we pray and how we talk about prayer with others. We remember Jesus as the great intercessor, imagining Jesus’ presence directly beside us and visualizing those we pray for as Jesus lays hands on them.
The book’s final prayers focus on turning desires and prayers over to God one at a time—praising God at all times for everything, both good and bad. This can change our prayer practice and how we live our lives.
De Mello invites us to live and pray intimately, becoming part of the grand mystery of God’s love for us and all creation in the present moment. He believes that this precious now, the present moment, is where God meets us.