When Our Souls Need to Catch Up With Our Bodies

When Our Souls Fall Behind Our Bodies

Jake Owensby recently told the story of a European Adventurer at the height of Western colonialism in Africa who set out to explore uncharted regions in the heart of that continent. He hired local tribesmen as porters to carry his supplies.

For days, they walked miles of challenging terrain at a relentless pace. The European explorer was obsessed with meeting his goal within the ambitious timetable he had set for the adventure.

One morning, his porters refused to take another step. There was no drama, no revolt. They simply sat down.

The explorer tried everything to get them moving again. Nothing worked. He finally asked, “Why aren’t you moving?”

One of the porters explained, “Our souls have fallen behind our bodies, so we must wait for them to catch up.”

Our souls have fallen behind our bodies so we must wait for them to catch up.1

 This so resonates with me. When our souls have fallen behind our bodies, this isn’t living. It’s merely existing.

But Jesus constantly calls us to a different way, a different pattern of life, that nourishes and cares for the soul even as our bodies grow weary.

The porters were not complaining about carrying heavy burdens. Instead, their ordinary lives had drummed into them a wisdom about carrying burdens that we have yet to learn.

In this life, we all carry burdens. Sometimes heavy, sometimes lighter. To be alive is to bear some burden.

To put that another way, a carefree life is no life at all. We are made in God’s image, designed to care for each other. Caring, being in relationship, is what makes life meaningful.

But in Western culture, we yearn for fulfillment and a life without stress, strain, toil, or anxiety—free of burdens.

We imagine we’ll get there once we reach our career goals, achieve notoriety, become powerful, or accumulate enough wealth.

In the meantime, our energy and attention focus on whatever will get us to that carefree point.

Along the way, we leave our souls behind. We may make immense technological progress, become well-known, and accumulate considerable wealth./ Yet our hearts feel troubled, we develop few friendships, and often our family relationships suffer. We experience anxiety, exhaustion, and alienation.

In this computer age, we make the Evil One’s job of evil a breeze. Hurry, pathological busyness, distraction, smartphone addiction, and the constant stream of alerts and interruptions—all of these cut us off from the Spirit, Christ, God within us. “When the Evil around us cannot make us bad, the Devil makes us busy.” (John Mark Comer, Live No Lies)

Our spiritual challenge is to practice sustained awareness or attention,  living intentionally in the present moment. Christians have long understood that this sustained habit of awareness of God’s presence within and around us does not happen by accident. It requires attentiveness and a pattern.. This is what Christian tradition calls a rule of life.

A rule is a spiritual rhythm for living intentionally in the present moment, experiencing God in the present moment. The present moment is where God meets us. Here we cultivate ongoing awareness of God,  beauty, the earth, and truth in everyday life rather than rushing through each day, each moment on autopilot. We notice what is happening within and around us. The cadence of the daily rhythm is marked by time with Scripture, reflection, prayer, work, sleep, recreation, and regular worship with a community.

St. Benedict and followers understood that our continuous practice of awareness of the present moment enables us to stay connected to God, who is always present. 2

The question is not whether we will carry burdens in this life. The question is which pattern we will follow to carry life’s burdens.

It is never too late to Stop, Be Aware, and get back on the path that lets our souls catch up with our bodies.

1Jake Owensby, “Listening is More Than Existing,” The Woodlands, May 15, 2026

2 Jake Owensby, “Pentecost Learning the Habit of Attention,” The Woodlands, May 22, 2026 

 Joanna. joannaseibert.com


Mary Magdalene Courage

Mary Magdalene Courage

Courage

“The other disciples left, but Mary stood weeping outside the tomb.” This is where we see Mary Magdalene’s courage. Not the courage to take up a sword, but the courage to stand, to remain in her grief, loss, and fear. This is a common, unheroic kind of courage – the vulnerable courage of waiting and trusting when hope seems gone, when we have no other hope than that God will provide. —Br. Lain Wilson, SSJE

We recently celebrated the Feast Day of Mary Magdalene on July 22. Mary Magdalene weeping at Jesus’ tomb is our icon for a very different kind of courage. It is the courage to stand by, wait, not run away, and stay still. It is the courage we see in people who are grieving and choose to stay with the grief, rather than anesthetize it with alcohol or drugs, work, shopping, or any other coping mechanism that allows them to escape instead of feel and work through the deep pain. 

This is also the courage that comes to those who sit and wait with a grieving friend, not trying to say words that bring no comfort. It is the courage of the person who can cry with their friend. This is the courage we have when our friends are in trouble, and we stand by them even when the world mocks them. We don’t condone their actions, but we stand by them. Often, this courage comes to those who have made mistakes themselves and remember what it was like to have friends who stood by them. I see this in families whose teenagers have gotten into trouble.

I will never forget the image of Dr. Joycelyn Elders standing and walking beside her son, who was in trouble, when she was Surgeon General. I also see this with adults who have made a mistake, whose friends are not afraid to walk with them. This is the courage of the women at the cross and of those who go to the tomb on Easter Sunday. They put themselves at risk of ridicule and danger to support someone the world judges. This is courage that does not shout or make a scene. Biblically and traditionally, this has been a characteristic of women's courage, but we are increasingly seeing it in men. This is courage that has said its prayers and then stands or sits beside the person in need. This is courage that changes the world through its healing presence.

Joanna  joannaseibert.com

 

 

Karen DuBert: Soul Feeding

Soul Feeding

Guest Writer: Karen DuBert

Sometimes on life’s pilgrimage

I don’t know what my soul craves,

but I feel the craving.

 

It’s obvious when my body craves--

Whether its comfort food

or something healthy—

and I am well aware when I need

a long cool drink of

refreshing, thirst-quenching water.

 

So as I reflect on food for my soul,

I need to ask myself what I’m craving:

my Living Water—

my Cup of Salvation—

my Bread of Life.

 

The metaphors are so intrinsic to my life

they don’t even feel metaphorical.

they feel strangely exotic

and pretty comfortable.

 

My soul yearns in anticipation—

the dishes, the beverages, the fellowship:

Foods simple, spicy, salty, and sweet.

All the nourishment my soul craves.

 

But what does it truly crave?

And does it crave what is good?

 

I need to discern when I gorge on

junk food of the soul.

Designed to be nourished

by Truth, Beauty, and Goodness,

it is too easy to be sated by

scrolling, bingeing, pursuing trivia,

numbing the deep longings

and quieting the uneasiness and questions.

 

I know myself well enough to know

that when I am hungry—

I might settle for something less, some distraction

something tasty but without nourishment.

Hyper-palatable: tastes so good I cannot stop,

with neither health or nutrition—

to help me be my best self.

 

I, at times, have settled for less.

No doubt I will do it again.

But I still seek the wisdom

to nurture the health of my soul

(unburdened by shame or false guilt)

but with gentleness and grace.

Karen DuBert

Joanna joannaseibert.com