Benedictine Life


Benedictine Life

“Listen, my child, with the ear of your heart.”—Prologue, The Rule of Benedict.

I keep returning to The Rule of Benedict. In fact, our Community of Hope Lay Chaplains recently led a class on Benedictine Spirituality in our forum during Lent at St. Mark’s.

 Listen “with the ear of your heart” is in the first line of the Prologue to this pattern for living in community written by St. Benedict of Nursia. It was composed in the sixth century during the Dark Ages and is in continued use by Benedictines fifteen centuries later. The Rule is a balanced model of life that offers a radical alternative to a culture out of control. It was written for monastic life but applies to anyone seeking a spiritually disciplined rule for living in the world. The Benedictine day is organized around regular private and communal prayer, sleep, work, recreation, hospitality, and study. 

Joan Chittister’s book, The Rule of Benedict: A Spirituality for the 21st Century, is used by the Community of Hope International. This program equips and supports lay pastoral caregivers who minister to people in all conditions. The Community of Hope International emphasizes developing skills and spiritual practices through immersing ministers in Benedictine spirituality in community. Chittister’s book can be used privately or in group discussions of the Rule. In addition, she writes a beneficial meditation and interpretation after each selected part of the Rule, which can be used in daily readings.

Memphis lawyer John McQuiston has written another concise modern interpretation of The Rule of Benedict called Always We Begin Again. It is pocket-sized and easily carried with you during the day.

 A third book I use is Spirituality for Everyday Living: An Adaptation of the Rule of St. Benedict by Brian C. Taylor. This is another offering to help those outside the monastery experience Benedict’s rule of obedience and stability in relationships with others. It promotes living in the balanced tension of the paradox of turning our lives over to a higher power while staying in relationship with others. The aim is to keep from becoming stagnant to change and grow. 

Esther de Waal focuses on this aim, even in the title of her book of reflections or meditations on Benedict’s Rule: Living with Contradiction. In her book To Pause at the Threshold, she also gives numerous Benedictine and Celtic reflections and prayers to practice when we cross a threshold from one room to another. She invites us to say a short prayer, trying to leave behind the “baggage” in our heads so we are open to a new experience. This can be especially helpful when visiting the sick or homebound as we enter their hospital room or front door.  

 There are many other books on Benedictine spirituality, but these five have made a difference in my life and the ones I give to people seeking a spiritual rule of life. So again, I would love to hear from you about the books on Benedictine spirituality that have made a difference in your life.

Joanna Seibert. https://www.joannaseibert.com/

 

 

 

Love

Love

“Hatred stirs up strife,

   but love covers all offenses.”—Proverbs 10:12.

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We are all banking on this being true. I think of all my offenses, the evil I have done, the harm I have done consciously or unconsciously, and the friends and family members I have hurt. I make amends for the damage I have done, but mostly, I try to make living amends.

I hope to learn to love how my granddaughter, Langley, is doing to this young child on her mission trip. I want to hold the Christ in others closely and tell them what a treasure they are. I want to see the Christ in them. This is what spiritual friends do for each other. They affirm and stand by each other.

More often now, I am paying it forward. If I could not make amends to the person I harmed, especially if they have died, I now show the love I wish I could have given them to someone else. Paying forward is showing love to someone else who has done nothing for us, especially someone we do not know who feels loveless. Still, making amends to the exact person we harmed will always, always be the most freeing.

I try, I judge, I make mistakes, I mess up, I hurt others, I make amends; I try to show the love that has been so often unconditionally given to me, and the cycle invariably starts all over again. It is a circular path. It is the human condition. Nevertheless, I try to stay connected to this circular pathway of others who know more than I know about love, and I hope to learn from them. I can so easily see Christ in them; occasionally, they can see the Christ in me, guiding me back onto the path of love.

Today, I learn most about how to love from my grandchildren. This is one more circular path: I first learned about love from my grandparents many years ago.

Joanna https://www.joannaseibert.com/

 

Feast Day of the Annunciation

Feast Day of the Annunciation

“Then Mary said, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word. Then the angel departed from her.” Luke 1:26-38

       We are in the middle of Lent, with Holy Week approaching, but last Tuesday, March 25, we took a brief break to celebrate the feast day of the annunciation to Mary that she will become a God-bearer. We hear the words of the angel Gabriel to Mary, "Greetings, favored one, the Lord is with you! "

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What is it like to see an angel? Would we, too, be perplexed, as is Mary? Do we see angels and not recognize them?   What does Gabriel look like?/ 

Imagine that an angel appears to us as we are seated here reading this message. Is it a man or a woman, or can we tell? Is she dressed in white, blue, or pink? Does he have wings? Does he bring us a flower? Is the voice loud or soft? Is there music?/  Imagine being called by God's messenger that we are the favored one, that God is with us.                                            

"Greetings, Edie, Sam, Sally, Henry, Michael, Amanda, Linda, Mark Freida, Henry, Vickie,  favored one, the Lord is with you! God has called you to a special mission. The Holy Spirit will come upon you, and the power of the most high will overshadow you. Nothing will be impossible with God. A new life will be born within you."/

All of creation holds its breath, awaiting our answer. What is our response?/ I am too old, too young for new life. I am a man. I cannot have something born within me. The age of miracles is over. How can something new be born in me? The place inside me is not a pure and holy dwelling for the birth of the sacred./

Gabriel's message is alive and meant for each of us this Lent, not just for the historical Mary so many years ago. It is for you and me.  

The angel Gabriel appears individually to each of us, asking if we will accept God to be born within us through the Holy Spirit. We each have that chance, daily, hourly, and especially yearly, during this Lenten season. The miracle is still taking place. The gift is offered this afternoon. We only need to be open to receive. We are all favored by our Lord, as is Mary. He is with us as he was with Mary. We are offered that same opportunity of new birth within us as she was.

My prayer for this Lent and coming Holy Week is that each of us will answer the call as Mary does, "Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word."  May these words be daily on our lips and in our hearts as God sends his messenger to announce his arrival in each of us./ May we also keep our ears open to the voice of another angel at the empty tomb, who will soon announce that the Christ, this new life within us, has now risen from the dead.

 The birth announcement has been made and heard.

Feel new birth kicking within us.

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Joanna joannaseibert.com